Boss

Why do I have Issues with Authority?

Ask yourself a question, whom are you uncomfortable with?

What are you uncomfortable with?

Is it the boss? Is it his attitude? Or is he / she reminding you of another authority figure?

Most of the time, an issue with the authority figure begins earlier in the childhood. In several cases it is the authority of the parent figure which a child or teenager rebels against and later a similar response could get exaggerated against anyone who demonstrates authority in a similar manner.

In a few cases, it could be a teacher figure or a sibling who was perceived as an unpleasant and overbearing authority figure. 

When you deal with the boss, you know you are no more a child and your boss is not your father or a childhood authority figure, but the child in you instantaneously reacts and gets affected every time you have to interact with your boss.

There is an inner child or several inner children, who have suffered, felt shattered, felt rebellious and resentful in the past, who keep reminding you to be careful and defensive against the boss all the time. 

These are the small little voices you hear when you deal with the boss. The stiffness in various parts of your body is the result of the stress, the inner child in you goes through, out of anticipation of the unpleasantness or sub-conscious, repressed memories from the past.

It's high time you address this inner child, secure this inner child, heal and integrate your inner child so that you can deal with the authority of the boss with adult maturity and reasonable sensibility.

You need to sort out your relationships with authoritarian parents or parent figures and forgive them genuinely. Also work out your unfavorable response to authority in general.

 

Passive Aggressive Behaviour (PAB) is mostly the cause of issues with authority figures in personal and professional life. You can consider resolving this issue with "Anger Management Meditation"

 

It might have been too painful to take others' control over you as a child. If you can disassociate pain and unpleasantness from the control / dominance factor, your professional life will become easier.

 

Step 1: Remember your boss has no control or dominance over your response towards him / her. Exercise your freedom of choosing your response.

Step 2: Review your childhood dominance in a new light. You may have allowed this dominance in order to avoid taking responsibilities at that point of time. The more responsibility you take, the lesser you invite dominance or control from others.

Step 3: Look at the possibility of living in harmony and operating out of team spirit in your environment.

 

Soul's Temple affirmation:

My Boss is my Soul's Temple

My need for this boss is my Soul's Temple

My resistance to let go of this need for the boss is my Soul's Temple

My issues with authority figure is my Soul's Temple

My need to have an issue with the authority figure is my Soul's Temple

My resistance to let go if my issues with the authority figure is my Soul's Temple

Note : A well designed affirmation could change your life. If you do not resonate with a particular affirmation, take the help of an online Guide to design the right affirmation for yourself.
 
How to Overcome Fear of Boss?
 
The child in me is very scared of my boss

Whom does your boss remind you of? What could be the worst consequence?

Face it. Fear is False Evidence of Artificial Reality.

It is not the boss you are scared of, but the consequences. You are scared of the 'power' that your boss represents. And this stems from the ‘feeling’ that you are powerless. Your sense of powerlessness is empowering your boss to be more powerful. You can reverse or neutralize this situation by empowering yourself !! Get in touch with your own inner strength. The only thing which you need to be really scared of is your tendency to feel scared... Address your fears, address your inner sense of vulnerability, address your past where you felt fearful and vulnerable due to authority figures around you, whom you perceived to be larger than life. 

Try writing down the following positive affirmation 21 times/day for the period of 21 days and experience the difference.
My feeling of powerlessness is my Soul's Temple
My need to feel powerless is my Soul's Temple
My resistance to let go of the feeling of powerlessness is my Soul's Temple
It is not the power of the boss, but your own powers you care really scared of. Because the powers of the boss simply reminds you of your own power which has turned destructive in the past or past lives. A lot of people who live life of being a powerless person or helpless person, invariably regress in the past life where they have been a powerful personality but used the powers destructively in the past and generated negative karmas and invited curses from people and  dies with a guilt feelings. There is a reason behind the past life pre-programming probably you will decode as you progress with self help and healing program. Meanwhile you could help yourself with this affirmations:
 
My sense of helplessness and powerlessness is my Soul's Temple
My need to feel helpless and powerless is my Soul's Temple
My resistance to let go of helplessness and powerlessness is my Soul's Temple
My guilt of misusing my power and authority in the past is my Soul's Temple
My need to feel guilty for misusing my powers and authority in the past is my Soul's Temple
My resistance to let go my guilt is my Soul's Temple
 

Note: A well designed affirmation could change your life. If you do not resonate with a particular affirmation, take the help of an online healer to design the right affirmation for yourself.

I Feel Humiliated / Insulted by My Boss

 

Is your boss the only person in your life who is treating you this way?

If few more people have or are treating you in a similar way, you need to look within and check out what it is that you need to heal within yourself in order to invite respectful behaviour from others.

The day you start valuing yourself you will realize that your boss will start respecting and valuing you.

Try writing down the following positive affirmation 21 times/day for the period of 21 days and experience the difference.

Soul's Temple affirmations

My humiliation and disrespect is my Soul's Temple

My need to feel humiliated and disrespected is my Soul's Temple

My resistance to let go of feeling of being humiliated and disrespected is my Soul's Temple

or

My guilt of humiliating and disrespecting others in the past is my Soul's Temple

My need to feel guilty about disrespecting and humiliating others in the past is my Soul's Temple

My Resistance to let go of the need for the humiliation and disrespect is my Soul's Temple

 

Note: A well designed affirmation could change your life. If you do not resonate with a particular affirmation, take the help of an online healer to design the right affirmation for yourself.
The Rebel Issue - The child in me wants to rebel, disobey and not co-operate with my boss.

Who are you rebelling against - power, authority or your own sense of weakness? or your own authority over your ownself?

Check it out - are you over responding to the inner frustration? Whatever you begin with, you end with the same result.

 

The journey towards rebellion starts with inner frustration, and rebellion brings in nothing else other than frustration eventually! And every time you rebel, you invite further frustration. Look at the creative way to find a win - win situation which is always a possibility. Every puzzle in your life will have a peaceful solution. Look out for it.

My tendency to rebel is my Soul's Temple

My need to rebel is my Soul's temple

My resistance to let go of my need to rebel is my Soul's Temple.

 

 

 

I Feel Misunderstood

 

As darkness is the absence of light, misunderstanding is the absence of understanding. And understanding is a two way process. What are you doing to make yourself understood by others? The skill lies in your ability to communicate appropriately and effectively. Your capacity to express yourself effectively and precisely depends upon your self esteem, self belief and level of self confidence. How about addressing these issues?

 

In order to make yourself be understood well, it is important that you start understanding your own self well. Meet various facets of your personality and accept and understand them whole heartedly.

My experience of being misunderstood is my Soul's Temple.

My need to experience this misunderstanding is my Soul's Temple.

My resistance to be understood clearly and precisely is my Soul's Temple.

Request your online guides to help you with throat chakra activation to improve your communication skills.

Do Inner child Meditation to heal the inner children who were not understood well by the authority figures in the past.

My Boss Favors Others
 

Was this the same feeling you had in your childhood / past too? How did you feel at that time?

 It does hurt when you perceive others getting more favors from the boss. There is a possibility that the pattern is an old one and some thing similar happened in the past too. Did you feel that the teacher or a parent or elder sibling favored others over you? The solution is simple. Probably when the child in your perceived that others were favored over you, you developed and reconfirmed this belief and over a period of time you have managed to manifest and proved your belief time and again. Of course there is a hope there is a solution. The beginning happens with the recognition of this pattern. Heal the inner child and address the inner child with inner child meditation or with the help of online guides.

Soul's Temple affirmation

This experience of unfairness is my Soul's Temple

The need to experience the unfairness is my Soul's Temple

My resistance to let go of this experience of unfairness is my Soul's Temple

 

If you strongly believe that you deserve the best, it will manifest in others' responses towards you.

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