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Of course, there are several moments, which are so disturbing that it gets almost impossible to think positively.
How can one be positive, when you experience so much…
Added by Aatmn on October 8, 2018 at 6:15am — No Comments
You are an amazing creation and all that you have and belong to you are amazing creations as well. You deserve to be honored and of course, all that you have and all that belongs to you, deserve to be honored too.
However, not necessarily you get the honor you would expect from others. On the contrary, you may experience shame and embarrassment due to…Continue
Added by Aatmn on September 20, 2018 at 6:32pm — No Comments
We all love to be loved and yet, it is so common to feel unloved.
All creations in this universe are some of the expressions of love at some level and yet, being amidst all these creations we still feel unloved at times.
There are several reasons behind the feeling of being unloved.
One of them is the fear of being loved.…Continue
Added by Aatmn on September 11, 2018 at 10:30am — No Comments
Two tribals went with their vessels to the food camp to grab their share of food being distributed by a generous donor. The one, who carried a bigger vessel, got a bigger share and the one who carried a tiny cup got a smaller share!
Arguments related to misfortune, unfairness, competition, difficulties and challenges turn meaningless when you realize that what…Continue
Added by Aatmn on August 21, 2018 at 9:04am — No Comments
A lady called up once feeling very helpless as her boss did not sanction her much deserved leave for a right reason. It took a while for her to work on her feeling and previous memories of helplessness which got triggered due to the denial and rejection.
After a couple of days, she thought of applying once again for the leaves. However, this time she…
A young kid was watching his father flying a kite quite high. For some reason, he thought that the string in his father's hand is not allowing the kite to rise high in the sky. He felt that his father was restraining and restricting the movement of the kite.
He asked his dad, why don't you leave this string and let the kite fly?
Father simply cut the string and the kite…
Added by Aatmn on August 14, 2018 at 5:47am — No Comments
It is still more important to be able to receive on time.
It is painful when you do not receive on time. Ask the person who is hungry and starving for food. Ask the businessman, who has to make an important investment for his business. Ask a working mother who is looking for a help to babysit her sick child while she…
Added by Aatmn on August 10, 2018 at 9:23am — No Comments
I have seen a young gentleman with the history of narrowly missing out his first rank in the school and college. As he grew up and settled well in his career, he would narrowly miss out on his promotions and sales target.
After the Redikall Consultation, he realized that he had seen his father as a very successful person but very rude and arrogant. He grew up building…Continue
Added by Aatmn on August 7, 2018 at 6:01am — No Comments
Other's authority over you often bothers you and creates unhealthy emotional response towards them and of course towards yourself for allowing yourself to be dominated or adversely affected by the authority figure.
What would happen if you deny this authority or authority figure?
What would be your life in the absence of the authority figure?
Most of the…
Added by Aatmn on August 2, 2018 at 6:36am — No Comments
A housewife's career could involve looking after the house and a student's career could involve studies. An aged person may be looking after himself or herself or their health-related…Continue
Added by Aatmn on July 24, 2018 at 6:55am — No Comments
Your inability to stop doing anything, which is eventually harmful or disadvantageous for you can be addictive in nature.
The addiction could go beyond the known substance abuse like alcohol, tobacco or LSD, weeds, etc.
You could be addicted to watching porns, horror shows, playing games, gambling
You could also be addicted to your Gym and…Continue
Most men would like to be respected for their position, contribution and for being the man of the house. When people in the family use derogatory remarks and manifest showdowns in private or in front of others the masculine pride often gets wounded…Continue
Added by Aatmn on July 18, 2018 at 6:19am — No Comments
Humility? Compliance? Flexibility? Freedom from old beliefs?
How about remaining open to receiving all that is being offered to you day in and out? Not all that you receive would be perceived as the 'best' for you and yet it would be great to…Continue
Added by Aatmn on July 17, 2018 at 7:00am — No Comments
A 5-year kid was fully focused on his doodling when his dad called him to come to the dining room for dinner. The child continued with his creative engagement, ignoring Dad's command. Dad was patient and thought he was not loud enough so he raised his voice and in a bit…Continue
Added by Aatmn on July 16, 2018 at 5:30am — No Comments
However, it is not necessary that people show and demonstrate their appreciation in a manner you choose. You might find your close friends and relatives, appreciating you in your…Continue
Added by Aatmn on July 13, 2018 at 8:42am — No Comments
It is common to think of withdrawing because of the risk of being exposed to repeated unpleasant strokes.
These strokes could be in the form of emotional hurt, financial struggles, social humiliation, environmental adversities.
The first response could be to change the situation and when you cannot change the situation, you may try and withdraw, either…Continue
Added by Aatmn on July 12, 2018 at 5:49am — No Comments
It is quite easy to remain cheerful when you are surrounded by people with a positive mindset and circumstances which are favourable and encouraging in nature.
How can you remain positive when the things are not working out the way you would like them to?
How can you remain cheerful and happy when others around you are constantly cribbing and…
Added by Aatmn on July 11, 2018 at 6:00am — No Comments
The parent personality in you is shaped in childhood by observing how you (as well as others around you) were parented.
Even if you do not have biological children, you often parent a pet, plant or a project or a company. Most parents strive to be their best and at times perfect. However, it is humanly impossible to be a perfect one as your level of perfection is often assessed by others and may judge you adversely in spite of your sincere efforts to do your best. …Continue
Added by Aatmn on July 10, 2018 at 6:00am — No Comments
You may occasionally feel stuck with a relationship, career, project or health-related issue. At times these situations are prolonged and pathetic. Even if you try all that you can, you still feel stuck for the reasons beyond your control.
The more you try to control, the more you seem to be getting stuck. It is like being inside a room with all doors and windows closed... No way to go, no way to step out of that trap...
And yet, air, water, thought energy, heat energy,…
However, who has made this person an authority figure in your life? What if you start re-authoring your life?
What if you start giving different role plays to different people in life.
How do you benefit by giving other people, including GOD…Continue