Sex, Lies, & Karma - The dangers of deception.

This is awareness to people about how sex, lies and karma could be interconnected. It has often been seen people lying in relationships, the worst has been lying for sex - whether its coaxing someone into a one-night stand or a deceitful, long-term sexual relationship, is a very prevalent problem. There are plenty of men and women out there who are willing to do whatever it takes to get what they want. People say they aren't married and they are. People who hold you back expressing their desire or stating that they are going to marry for time to come and use people during that time. They know they don't love you, but they go ahead and convince you of it anyway. They say they're going to change, maybe even go into therapy so the two of you can live together forever, without any intentions of following through.

But there are consequences not just for the victims of these damaging deceptions, but for the deceivers as well - in the form of karma.

There have been promises of a life together from a man or woman. "Any time we lie to manipulate a situation to our advantage, there is some kind of price to pay. Lying disempowers us. And when we are lied to, and try to believe our partner even though our instincts tell us we're being snookered … we also disempower ourselves ".

It is always bad - and you can call it karma - to manipulate others to give you anything, let alone give away a part of themselves, which is what we do when we lie for sex, It's a terrible thing, and it never leads to anything more than people losing a piece of themselves. We should always only reserve giving sex away to those with whom we are sure it would be a fair trade.

It's cruel to lead people on, and yet this is consistently the case with many. I have seen, the lies around in people in a swirling cloud of dark smoke, and in the heart of the person who is lying. It is hurtful to see someone been fooled by their partner. Empathizing and trying to be compassionate, so to feel their pain and sorrow. It cuts deeply to find you've wasted years of your life on someone who has been using you.

I am sure many may agree that the results of these lies are devastating to the victim - it often takes years for them to heal emotionally and to turn their lives around and in most cases they turn into a nervous wreck. All lying for personal gain affects some level of karma. So what kind of karma does a person who lies for personal gain or sex end up dealing with? People who exploit others for personal gain or sex usually end up suffering an inconsistent sex life, or never find a committed, happy relationship. And interestingly enough, nine out of those 10 people are looking for a life-long relationship. I see the power of karmic justice, time and time again. The truth is always uncovered. The truth is never hidden too far from the surface, and the universe always makes sure that there is balance.

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Comment by Sunil Lalvani on July 13, 2010 at 7:44am
Hello Sridhar,

Thank you for your comment on the blog. I do appreciate your query. Many more would have the same query too. The wheel of Karma is some thing nobody really knows how it works and reflects its balance on us. It’s a belief we human beings follow just as we have faith in GOD and do not know HIS way of dealing with things. We human beings have seen time and again how we pay for our deeds. It’s all about individual's understanding and belief. I did write a short write-up but realized you are well informed by way of putting up blogs and your comments on others’ blogs recently.

Refer to your comment on the blog by me “ Short and Simple “ and your blog on July 12, 2010, some which you experienced. That’s how it goes....experiencing.

Warm wishes,

Comment by Sridhar Mangu on July 11, 2010 at 3:49pm
Very good write-up indeed. One question: how does karma bring a balance to those having consensual sex with many?
Comment by Sunil Lalvani on June 30, 2010 at 10:14am
Hi Pooja,

Thank you so much for your comment. So true, when being a participant to such indulgences, people do not realize as to how they would be paid back in life. End of it, it is the commitment and consistency that is required.

Take care,

Comment by Pooja Vaswani on June 29, 2010 at 3:24pm
Hi Sunil,

This is a nice write up. Most people minds wouldn't cross about how this aspect of life would reflect. When they really have to suffer the consequences, it's then only they realize. It's sad, most of the times it gets too late in life and one is left to accept the " karma " has in store for oneself. Thank you for sharing on FB too.

Take care,

Comment by Sunil Lalvani on June 27, 2010 at 9:50am
Hi Deepali,

Thank you so much for your comment on my blog. It feels nice when people read the article, somewhere inside I feel that it may do good to many for time to come. Yes, you said it so well that it would only bring more peace and purity in the world if one understood and implemented it. I really wish people had that commitment and consistency in whatever they did/do with themselves.

Warm wishes,
Comment by Deepali Pandya on June 26, 2010 at 5:09pm
Hey Sunil,
Nice blog on a very important issue.Am sure when this aspect is well understood and implemented by majority of us,it would actually contribute to more peace and purity in the world.
True me too have seen Karmic justice time and again!

Love & Gratitude

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