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This is awareness to people about how sex, lies and karma could be interconnected. It has often been seen people lying in relationships, the worst has been lying for sex - whether its coaxing someone into a one-night stand or a deceitful, long-term sexual relationship, is a very prevalent problem. There are plenty of men and women out there who are willing to do whatever it takes to get what they want. People say they aren't married and they are. People who hold you back expressing their desire or stating that they are going to marry for time to come and use people during that time. They know they don't love you, but they go ahead and convince you of it anyway. They say they're going to change, maybe even go into therapy so the two of you can live together forever, without any intentions of following through.
But there are consequences not just for the victims of these damaging deceptions, but for the deceivers as well - in the form of karma.
There have been promises of a life together from a man or woman. "Any time we lie to manipulate a situation to our advantage, there is some kind of price to pay. Lying disempowers us. And when we are lied to, and try to believe our partner even though our instincts tell us we're being snookered … we also disempower ourselves ".
It is always bad - and you can call it karma - to manipulate others to give you anything, let alone give away a part of themselves, which is what we do when we lie for sex, It's a terrible thing, and it never leads to anything more than people losing a piece of themselves. We should always only reserve giving sex away to those with whom we are sure it would be a fair trade.
It's cruel to lead people on, and yet this is consistently the case with many. I have seen, the lies around in people in a swirling cloud of dark smoke, and in the heart of the person who is lying. It is hurtful to see someone been fooled by their partner. Empathizing and trying to be compassionate, so to feel their pain and sorrow. It cuts deeply to find you've wasted years of your life on someone who has been using you.
I am sure many may agree that the results of these lies are devastating to the victim - it often takes years for them to heal emotionally and to turn their lives around and in most cases they turn into a nervous wreck. All lying for personal gain affects some level of karma. So what kind of karma does a person who lies for personal gain or sex end up dealing with? People who exploit others for personal gain or sex usually end up suffering an inconsistent sex life, or never find a committed, happy relationship. And interestingly enough, nine out of those 10 people are looking for a life-long relationship. I see the power of karmic justice, time and time again. The truth is always uncovered. The truth is never hidden too far from the surface, and the universe always makes sure that there is balance.